One picture … an image holding a shared moment during a winter’s drive … a silent memory of the time … the time before hearing … hearing the diagnosis … prostate cancer, stage 4.*
*A 2013 study conducted at the Portland VA Medical Center and Oregon Health and Science University found that Veterans exposed to Agent Orange are not only at higher risk for prostate cancer, but they are more likely to have aggressive forms of the disease. (cited: US Department of Veteran’s Affairs)
Leya’s lens-artists challenge: “use only ONE picture. One that you find important, meaningful to you, maybe sending a message – and then explain why you picked just that picture.”
a meditative journey 
A beautiful image, and so connected to the story. Nicely done, Brenda.
Thank you for validating words
A picture that really speaks – even before your explanation. Beautiul and yet filled with sorrow.
Thank you Leya
I like the image as it speaks of silence but the story is heart breaking.
Yes heart breaking for so many men and their families
Your image is wonderful Brenda, your story is tragic. There are no words.
Yes, there really are no words. Sometimes only images speak for the heart
Your image is beautiful Brenda. The war, however, was not. My husband is a Vietnam Vet and I have plenty of words, but this is not the time or place.
I also have lots of words…so many words. Could I hope that maybe this one posting gives words to the unspoken
The story behind this image is a failure on so many levels, but the photo is an expression of beauty.
Thank you for “failure on so many levels” and “expression of beauty”
A poignant moment, Brenda.
Yes, a moment that began so many moments within moments